Posted: October 27th, 2022

2 Bad and Undesirable Listening Habits

Referencing any of the 9 Habits, describe 2 poor listening habits you may have personally experienced before in your life when you are listening to a talk, speech or when someone is saying something to you, etc. Maybe it was you, maybe it was the other party or maybe it was someone you saw or witnessed in front of you when he/she was not listening.

Nothing too personal, just share with us what happened and what you should/could have done.

LINK:

https://web.microsoftstream.com/embed/video/20581dd5-cc40-4d78-ab4e-4512fb989ced?autoplay=false&showinfo=true&forceServerAuth=true

ResourceShort answer

Mindreading
Thinking you know
the other person’s
intentions

From The Brian Buffini Show
Episode 26: MASTERING
THE ART OF LISTENING

MY STORY
NOW!

HABITS
TO BREAK
TO BECOME A
BETTER LISTENER

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FAR
Formulating A
Response while the
other person is talking

ATM
Auto Telling your
story in response to
someone else’s story

SOS
Always putting the
Spotlight On Self

Don’t Worry,
Be Happy
Minimizing others’
problems by saying
“don’t worry about that”

Sentencing
Finishing people’s
sentences for them

Me Me Me
Turning the
conversation
to yourself no
matter what

Playing God
Judging who’s right
or wrong without
recognizing that people
don’t always see the
world like you

Mr. Fix It
Trying to fix other
people’s problems
for them when they
haven’t asked you to

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